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Self-Discovery and Healing.

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How Do I Know If I Need Counseling?
One of the questions I hear most often is: “How do I know if I need counseling?”
It’s an honest question, and one that deserves an honest answer.
DBarrera_813
Jul 56 min read


Why Is Being Kind to Ourselves So Hard?
It seems we speak to ourselves in ways we would never speak to someone we care about.
Why is that?
DBarrera_813
Feb 83 min read


'Escape (The Piña Colada Song)' and What We Can Learn from That Slice of Life.
The song 'Escape (The Piña Colada Song)' endures because it captures something timeless.
It’s funny, yes, but it’s also real.
It’s about the longing we all have to be seen and to feel alive in our romantic relationships.
DBarrera_813
Jan 134 min read


The Dirty Little Secret of Personal Growth: Questioning Your Most Cherished Beliefs Can Actually Make Them Stronger.
What if questioning your deepest beliefs could make them stronger, not weaker? Learn how CBT, existential psychology, and philosophy turn doubt into growth.
DBarrera_813
Sep 22, 20254 min read


Self-Proclaimed Leaders and Con Artists: Why People are Hypnotized & Hand Over Control of Their Lives
We live in a world filled with voices promising guidance, voices that claim to have special wisdom, secret insight, or a path to freedom. Some are self-proclaimed leaders who project unwavering confidence and attract devoted followers. Others are outright con artists who know how to manipulate that confidence into control.
Their certainty feels magnetic.
For many, it is easier, even comforting, to let someone else take the wheel of our lives. But why does this happen?
DBarrera_813
Sep 2, 20254 min read


“Sometimes, Something Isn't a Problem…Until It Is”: When to Know It’s Time to Talk to Someone.
“Sometimes, Something Isn't a Problem…Until It Is”: When to Know It’s Time to Talk to Someone.
You ever notice how a small leak under the sink doesn’t seem like a big deal until one day, the cabinet is warped, the wood is moldy, and now you’re looking at repairs that could’ve been avoided if you had taken care of it earlier?
DBarrera_813
Jul 18, 20254 min read
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